Internet Pornography, Harmless Fun?

[Al Swearengen]

Porn and real women satisfy different desires. One does not take the place of the other.

I think I understand Joe's point here. Ya see, there are just SOME things ya cant/dont/wont ask your wife or girlfriend to do...or maybe the guy just hasnt worked up the courage to ASK her to do those things...or maybe he just cant bring himself to ask her with a straight face...or maybe he already knows she WONT do IT, whatever IT is! So instead he can safely take his, uh, lets say somewhat unorthodox request(s), to this imaginary, completely uninhibited fantasy woman. THAT woman might even be his own wife/girlfriend...or not. Any man knows that wives and girlfriends say and do lots of things in our heads that they wont in our beds. Dealing with his fantasies in this way might sympathetically be viewed as a prophylactic (no pun intended) means of satisfying his desires without putting his marriage/relationship or anyone's health at risk.

[scarlett]

Originally Posted by Al Swearengen

I think I understand Joe's point here. Ya see, there are just SOME things ya cant/dont/wont ask your wife or girlfriend to do...or maybe the guy just hasnt worked up the courage to ASK her to do those things...or maybe he just cant bring himself to ask her with a straight face...or maybe he already knows she WONT do IT, whatever IT is! So instead he can safely take his, uh, lets say somewhat unorthodox request(s), to this imaginary, completely uninhibited fantasy woman. THAT woman might even be his own wife/girlfriend...or not. Any man knows that wives and girlfriends say and do lots of things in our heads that they wont in our beds. Dealing with his fantasies in this way might sympathetically be viewed as a prophylactic (no pun intended) means of satisfying his desires without putting his marriage/relationship or anyone's health at risk.

I think hurting your wife/gf/sigother is worse now if both are consenting adults with this that's fine but if the wife (as i have read the ratio is very high out there) most don't agree with the porn and feel like the sluts are taking their place and fulfilling a need as you are saying that they can't fulfill. I would say ask most women would do anythign to satisfy their man especially if they knew a tramp was taking her place visually.

Just my .03 of course........

[Al Swearengen]

I agree with ya there Scarlett, which is why I dont keep a porn stash. I know how it would make my better half feel if she were to find it. I also admit that I wouldnt like it if I found HER porn stash. So I guess if youre gonna look at it, the lesson here is "dont get caught"!

[joepole]

Saying "if you really love sex with your spouse then you don't need pornography because your spouse should be able to fulfill all your desires" is like saying "if you really enjoy spending time with your spouse then you don't need to read books, watch television, or go to to movies because your spouse should be able to fulfill all your desires."

I love my wife and we have great sex. That doesn't mean I don't also like to watch 3 midgets have sex with a horse once in a while.

[LateNight]

Originally Posted by joepole

I love my wife and we have great sex. That doesn't mean I don't also like to watch 3 midgets have sex with a horse once in a while.

I nominate this for QUOTE OF THE YEAR !!

[scarlett]

Originally Posted by joepole

Saying "if you really love sex with your spouse then you don't need pornography because your spouse should be able to fulfill all your desires" is like saying "if you really enjoy spending time with your spouse then you don't need to read books, watch television, or go to to movies because your spouse should be able to fulfill all your desires."

I love my wife and we have great sex. That doesn't mean I don't also like to watch 3 midgets have sex with a horse once in a while.

Comparing tv, books and watching television to porn means you have a twisted delusional mind and trying to justify what you do. Apparently most disagree with you, MEN AT THAT.

You have to love people that find the most stupid things to justify their sinful acts or their immoral ways or just making a stupid decision.

Poor wife with a twisted sick mind of a husband. tsk tsk tsk

I wouldn't be so quick to brag on midgets and horses having sex but hey whatever your fetish is go for it. Some may say T M I!!!!

[Bob]

o.k. 'women' what's your thought on your man havin' a little 'porn' while you are say, out of town ? Just curious. For those that are 'offended' .
Certainly I could understand that, being a real problem, should the porn be used in "place of" just curious about some other circumstance ?

[scarlett]

Originally Posted by Bob

o.k. 'women' what's your thought on your man havin' a little 'porn' while you are say, out of town ? Just curious. For those that are 'offended' .
Certainly I could understand that, being a real problem, should the porn be used in "place of" just curious about some other circumstance ?

I guess i don't need to post my opinions here but i will anyway. If you want it when you are out of town call me up i'll give you a great 900 phone call. Heck I have a video camera and real camera so I can make all the videos and take all the pictures you want.

If this doesn't do it for you well you have a problem.......

[AnimeSpirit]

Originally Posted by joepole

Saying "if you really love sex with your spouse then you don't need pornography because your spouse should be able to fulfill all your desires" is like saying "if you really enjoy spending time with your spouse then you don't need to read books, watch television, or go to to movies because your spouse should be able to fulfill all your desires."

When you commit to a person romantically, then you have agreed to place the satisfaction of your romantic desires (and sexual desires) solely into your partner's hands. How you spend your free time and where you choose to dine has some such implications as well, but to a much smaller extent.

It is a matter of simple propriety. Women don't care what you read or where you eat or when you go to the movies. However, they DO care who you get your sexual kicks from, especially if it's not them.