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Old 10-22-2007, 09:41 AM   #1
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Now I don't have kids myself yet, but I would like to point out the difference between a beating and a spanking. The difference is in the aggression you use. You should NEVER NEVER attempt to spank your child during a moment when you have lost your temper. Your aggression is almost guaranteed to be more than what is needed. That is what teaches your child aggression is ok.

The proper way to spank a child is not unlike the way it was typically done in school years ago when teachers could use corporal punishment. Send the child out of the room for a few moments and tell them to wait outside. This is useful because it gives you a few moments to compose yourself and gives them a few moments to dread what they know is coming. Tell them to bend over and give em a few shots calmly. Afterwards, you sit them down and explain to them why their actions were wrong and express your unwillingness to let it happen again.
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Now I don't have kids myself yet, but I would like to point out the difference between a beating and a spanking. The difference is in the aggression you use. You should NEVER NEVER attempt to spank your child during a moment when you have lost your temper. Your aggression is almost guaranteed to be more than what is needed. That is what teaches your child aggression is ok.

The proper way to spank a child is not unlike the way it was typically done in school years ago when teachers could use corporal punishment. Send the child out of the room for a few moments and tell them to wait outside. This is useful because it gives you a few moments to compose yourself and gives them a few moments to dread what they know is coming. Tell them to bend over and give em a few shots calmly. Afterwords, you sit them down and explain to them why their actions were wrong and express your unwillingness to let it happen again.
Anime sounds like you need a few kids Make your mom a grandmother again. Did you vote ?
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Did you vote ?

I've been wondering that as well, Anime?!
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Old 10-22-2007, 11:23 AM   #4
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It takes a lot for me to hit my daughter (I have "don't hit girls" so burned into my brain) but my wife can swat with the best of 'em.
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It takes a lot for me to hit my daughter (I have "don't hit girls" so burned into my brain) but my wife can swat with the best of 'em.
Come on Pyle I know you are good at spanking If you can't spank them now there will be a price to be paid when they go through the change. I will say when that first "real" boyfriend comes along they will still love daddy BUT see ya later gator sux but it is the natural order of things.I have three daughters 23,21 and 16
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It takes a lot for me to hit my daughter (I have "don't hit girls" so burned into my brain) but my wife can swat with the best of 'em.
In our house, all we need to do is pull out the wooden spoon and they scatter running! I hereby give my wife the wooden spoon award for superior home disapline...
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In our house, all we need to do is pull out the wooden spoon and they scatter running! I hereby give my wife the wooden spoon award for superior home disapline...
Rhertz you need a boat paddle !! Every child likes to have a father with a back bone even when it hurts their feelings down the road they will love you for all the effort it takes to show hard love.
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Did you vote ?
No, unfortunately, I missed the polls this time around. But I'll catch the next one if TBelle will get me a date.
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