Woman killed in shootout between her husband and lover

[Texasbelle]

Originally Posted by Al Swearengen

Maybe now these two boys will see that she wasnt worth it. Nobody is! I speak from experience, and I'm here to tell ya nobody is worth it! Hear me now and believe me later when I tell ya that nobody is worth it. Now shes takin a dirtnap. The cuckolded husband is the real victim here.

There is more than one victim in this case. There are three families that are victimized now, but one more so than the others. Somebody has lost a daughter, sister, niece, granddaughter, and perhaps a mother. It was not worth it for anyone to cheat and it never is.

JoePole, I find myself hoping that your wife finds this board if you truly believe what you have typed. And once she reads it, I hope her wrath has no measure for you. If you don't like her, leave. Walk now. SHE DESERVES THE OPPORTUNITY TO FIND SOMEONE BETTER THAN YOU.

[Isaac-Saxxon]

How would you feel if you caught your wife trying out a new husband just to see if you are up to par ??
Isaac

[Texasbelle]

You know marriages are not like shoes. You don't get to keep trying them on until you find a good fit. And then you don't get to through one away once you think it is a little worn, or you dont like something about it. Marriage is/should be for life. I do know, having experienced it, that there are circumstances which warrant divorce but to think you can take it lightly is absurd, irresponsible, and heartless.

[joepole]

Why would I care of my wife found out that I said that it is possible for good to come out of being a disloyal spouse? I'm sure she would agree.

[AnimeSpirit]

Originally Posted by joepole

Why would I care of my wife found out that I said that it is possible for good to come out of being a disloyal spouse? I'm sure she would agree.

Seeking the benefits of being a disloyal spouse come at such a high price that only a fool would even consider them, which is to say we have quite a few of those in society. There are much more honorable ways of doing anything that you could get out of being disloyal. If you wish to seek another partner, you should NOT be married! If you truly wish to honor and respect your spouse, you should NOT be cheating!

This is part of the wedding vows and too many people take them for granted these days. If you willingly betray your wedding vows (by cheating), then you do not deserve to be married so you might as well stop looking.

[joepole]

Lots of people feel very differently about it than you, which is why you can't make blanket statements like "no good can ever come."

>There are much more honorable ways of doing anything that you could get out of being disloyal. If you wish to seek another partner, you should NOT be married! If you truly wish to honor and respect your spouse, you should NOT be cheating!

None of those things have any bearing on whether or not good can come from cheating on your partner.

[Al Swearengen]

Originally Posted by joepole

Lots of people feel very differently about it than you, which is why you can't make blanket statements like "no good can ever come."

LOL..ya mean like "people who play the lottery are not financially savvy", like THAT blanket statement? Lots of people felt differently about that, too, but it didnt stop ya from paintin em all with the broad brush, did it laddie?