raped by your husband?

Morpheus · 11-07-2007, 10:12 PM

I must add that I'm very fortunate in that I have a wife who's never refused me. I also think that she would never admit that she wasn't always 100% down with the gameplan. I wasn't so fortunate with my first wife. I once went more than 9 months without-my longest dry spell since puberty. I can imagine her claiming that I forced myself upon her with enough Salem witch hysteria in her corner.

Al Swearengen · 11-08-2007, 12:27 AM

Morph, wish I could say the same about bein "refused". My first wife used sex as leverage to get whatever she wanted (that started after we got married). My second wife had some serious sex issues. Both of them claimed to have been sexually assaulted/molested in their youth, and curiously, both are probably borderline personalities. One thing I noticed from my time on the datin scene followin the second divorce was just how many women I'd met who claimed to have been raped or molested...and I didnt walk, I ran like hell whenever I came across one of those! I was beginnin to think there wasnt a single woman in Shreveport/Bossier who hadnt been victimized at some time in her life, but was bound and determined to find one, and eventually did. So, a word to the wise...if ya want a healthy marriage/relationship, think twice before gettin seriously involved with any woman who tells ya she's been raped or molested, or by God you'll be sorry.

Pocahontas · 11-08-2007, 08:34 AM

I think that no means no wife or not. It's always best when both parties are in the mood. When one isn't (usually the wife) it's not so good anyway. I'm guessing the women on Oprah (didn't see it) probably felt more emotionally raped by their husbands than the actual physical act.

guitarman · 11-08-2007, 08:41 AM

The mood

Needs to be a flag at the door to let everybody concerned know what the "MOOD" is. Sometimes my pocketbook gets in a bad mood too

No honey no money !

Got to love this one ! Where is Tbelle this song is for you

Morpheus · 11-08-2007, 04:58 PM

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Originally Posted by guitarman

The mood

Needs to be a flag at the door to let everybody concerned know what the "MOOD" is. Sometimes my pocketbook gets in a bad mood too

No honey no money !

Got to love this one ! Where is Tbelle this song is for you

guitarman it says video no longer available....

Pocahontas · 11-08-2007, 08:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Morpheus

I must add that I'm very fortunate in that I have a wife who's never refused me.

You must be a newlywed then!

Morpheus · 11-08-2007, 04:57 PM

Yes Pokie I am! Three years this October. I have heard that you're a newlywed until you hit double digits. However, with my first wife the honeymoon was over in a matter of months if not weeks. I thought it was normal, since you always hear jokes about it. i.e. Scientists have discovered a food that decreases a female's sex drive by 90%. It's called "wedding cake". I'm glad to find out that it doesn't HAVE to be true.

Isaac-Saxxon · 11-08-2007, 04:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Morpheus

Yes Pokie I am! Three years this October. I have heard that you're a newlywed until you hit double digits. However, with my first wife the honeymoon was over in a matter of months if not weeks. I thought it was normal, since you always hear jokes about it. i.e. Scientists have discovered a food that decreases a female's sex drive by 90%. It's called "wedding cake". I'm glad to find out that it doesn't HAVE to be true.

It never gets any better than a woman that wants to have a baby

If you could bottle that energy you would be a very happy man

Pocahontas · 11-08-2007, 10:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Isaac-Saxxon

It never gets any better than a woman that wants to have a baby

If you could bottle that energy you would be a very happy man

That is a very wise statement! Take note Morpheus...you just have one little one right? There still should be lots of baby making fun to go!

I think Joepole might be in the baby making biz as well.

Al Swearengen · 11-09-2007, 12:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Pocahontas

I think Joepole might be in the baby making biz as well.

I thought he was in the nitpickin semantics & question dodgin biz?

joepole · 11-09-2007, 09:55 AM

I have a 2.5 year old and a 10 month old (both girls).

I ain't makin' no more.

11-08-2007, 12:27 AM	#2
Al Swearengen Advanced Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 849 Rep Power: 269	Morph, wish I could say the same about bein "refused". My first wife used sex as leverage to get whatever she wanted (that started after we got married). My second wife had some serious sex issues. Both of them claimed to have been sexually assaulted/molested in their youth, and curiously, both are probably borderline personalities. One thing I noticed from my time on the datin scene followin the second divorce was just how many women I'd met who claimed to have been raped or molested...and I didnt walk, I ran like hell whenever I came across one of those! I was beginnin to think there wasnt a single woman in Shreveport/Bossier who hadnt been victimized at some time in her life, but was bound and determined to find one, and eventually did. So, a word to the wise...if ya want a healthy marriage/relationship, think twice before gettin seriously involved with any woman who tells ya she's been raped or molested, or by God you'll be sorry. __________________ Molon Labe! Last edited by Al Swearengen; 11-08-2007 at 05:14 AM.

11-08-2007, 08:34 AM	#3
Pocahontas SBLive! Veteran Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 1,691 Rep Power: 294	I think that no means no wife or not. It's always best when both parties are in the mood. When one isn't (usually the wife) it's not so good anyway. I'm guessing the women on Oprah (didn't see it) probably felt more emotionally raped by their husbands than the actual physical act. __________________ "The greater your capacity to love, the greater your capacity to feel the pain." Jennifer Aniston

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11-07-2007, 10:12 PM	#1
Morpheus Advanced Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 499 Rep Power: 246	I must add that I'm very fortunate in that I have a wife who's never refused me. I also think that she would never admit that she wasn't always 100% down with the gameplan. I wasn't so fortunate with my first wife. I once went more than 9 months without-my longest dry spell since puberty. I can imagine her claiming that I forced myself upon her with enough Salem witch hysteria in her corner.

11-08-2007, 08:41 AM	#4
guitarman Advanced Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Shreveport Age: 56 Posts: 140 Rep Power: 236	The mood Needs to be a flag at the door to let everybody concerned know what the "MOOD" is. Sometimes my pocketbook gets in a bad mood too No honey no money ! Got to love this one ! Where is Tbelle this song is for you

11-08-2007, 04:57 PM	#7
Morpheus Advanced Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 499 Rep Power: 246	Yes Pokie I am! Three years this October. I have heard that you're a newlywed until you hit double digits. However, with my first wife the honeymoon was over in a matter of months if not weeks. I thought it was normal, since you always hear jokes about it. i.e. Scientists have discovered a food that decreases a female's sex drive by 90%. It's called "wedding cake". I'm glad to find out that it doesn't HAVE to be true.

11-09-2007, 09:55 AM	#11
joepole SBLive! Veteran Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 1,606 Rep Power: 281	I have a 2.5 year old and a 10 month old (both girls). I ain't makin' no more.

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