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View Poll Results: Do you feel it's ok for your wife/girlfriend/significant other to view porn? | |||
Yes | 10 | 47.62% | |
No | 9 | 42.86% | |
I don't care | 2 | 9.52% | |
Voters: 21. This poll is closed |
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02-27-2007, 05:56 PM | #1 |
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Internet Pornography, Harmless Fun?
http://mentalhelp.net/poc/view_index...9&d=1&w=5&e=87
here are a few things it says about it. It took me a while to read all the comments but I will say very interesting how women think vs men. Harmful Effects of Internet Pornography Internet Pornography:-Threatens marital and intimate relationships. - Is experienced as being isolating and depressing. - Shares many qualities of other addictions, such as not being able to control the impulse to view it. - Threatens employment if done at work. - Is extremely unproductive and leads to frustration on the part of the viewer. - Due to the interactive nature of the Internet, can lead to direct contact with the models on the adult sites. - Can harm the self esteem of some men who feel adolescent in viewing these sites and masturbating. - Is offensive to many wives and girl friends who often feel rejected and not good enough as a result. - Angers people who consider it to be exploitive and debasing to women. - There is always worry that children could discover the pornography on computers used at home. |
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I'd be willing to bet it would bother most men if they discovered their wives/girlfriends kept a stash of beefcake mags hidden somewhere or were viewing it on the net. It'd sure as hell bother me...only way such a thing would NOT bother me is if I had no romantic interest in said woman.
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02-27-2007, 07:14 PM | #3 |
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That is the most BS-laden thing I've ever read.
-Threatens marital and intimate relationships. No, it doesn't. Someone who abuses pornography (or abuses anything) threatens a relationship. - Is experienced as being isolating and depressing. By whom? not by me. - Shares many qualities of other addictions, such as not being able to control the impulse to view it. It also shares many qualities of religion, eating, or being an astronaut. - Threatens employment if done at work. So what? That's a problem with your choice of venue, not with your chosen pastime. Other things that threaten employment if done at work: Swearing, sleeping, arguing, eating, drinking, staring at the wall, praying, smoking, and farting. - Is extremely unproductive and leads to frustration on the part of the viewer. On the contrary, it is extremely satisfying if done correctly. - Due to the interactive nature of the Internet, can lead to direct contact with the models on the adult sites. You can pick up women anywhere. I would wager that porn stars are less approachable than most other women due to all the crazies. - Can harm the self esteem of some men who feel adolescent in viewing these sites and masturbating. If you feel bad for masturbating then there's all kinds of things wrong with you that have nothing to do with pornography. - Is offensive to many wives and girl friends who often feel rejected and not good enough as a result. Those women are offensive to me, we're even. - Angers people who consider it to be exploitive and debasing to women. People who consider it to be exploitive and debasing to women anger me. Again, we're even. - There is always worry that children could discover the pornography on computers used at home. No, there is not always that worry. I don't worry about it. |
02-27-2007, 07:57 PM | #4 |
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Internet Pornography, Harmless Fun?
Yes it has been around for thousands of years and many cultures have used children to meet the lust of adults. There are some very sick porn movies and freaky stuff with animals. I know you guys may think I am judging here but porn is not good a very best. You do as you please but I am with Al and I would not be happy to find my wife with porn flicks in the closet and I know she would be very unhappy to find them in mine. That is my family and yes this is America and your choice is just that your choice. Moral decline never ever helped a country ever
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My position on this topic is simple. If you're single, then by all means, check out all the porn you like and keep it to yourself, but put them away and delete them from the computer when/if you enter a steady relationship. However, if you're already in a relationship, you shouldn't need the porn and shouldn't risk offending your other with it. It is not hard to understand that some women (particularly women with low self-esteem) may feel inadequate when faced with a man who would prefer porn instead of her. It's insulting and too many men are ignorant of this fact! If you are truly committed and attracted to another person, there is NO good reason for having or even desiring porn! If you truly do prefer the porn instead, then you are not committed and should not waste her time! Nuf said! Now, I am not beyond the concept that some committed lovers like to watch video porns together to excite themselves or discover more exotic means of satisfying each other's sexual desires. This, when mutually agreed upon, can be productive to the relationship if both parties are comfortable in doing so. |
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02-27-2007, 09:05 PM | #6 |
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LMAO. You all are too funny. Interesting thread.
I suppose there's porn, and then there's porn. You know. Who's to say a good porn flick couldn't be the inspiration for you and your partner to try something new and exciting .. TOGETHER ?? just a thought. I should get bonus points for that one |
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Bomp chikka bow now bomp chikka bow now
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02-28-2007, 10:07 AM | #10 | |
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02-28-2007, 06:09 PM | #11 |
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Tom Anderson (of Beavis and Butthead fame): "Hey, youre the two kids thatve been whackin in my tool shed...boy I'll tell ya what, theyre just like a couple o lil old spidermonkeys"
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03-04-2007, 04:19 PM | #13 |
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how about the total on the poll in this thread.
8 for 8 against 2 don't care |
03-04-2007, 04:27 PM | #14 |
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Kind of like the GOP and the Dems
Our country is torn in half and the swing vote rules. WE have reached our event horizon so hang on for the ride.
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