I think I'm too tired to take on 20 year old drug addicts. Maybe if we could have had them at age 0 and started that would've worked. Yes there is so much to be said for raising your kids in a stable home, making them accountable for their actions, keeping them on some type of a schedule and then of course instilling a work ethic in them. I do not take credit for all of these things with my kids alone...Mr. Pokie played a HUGE roll in how good our kids have turned out! We have been blessed!