I must be the exception, because what you see is what you get. I am not vain at all. I do not try to look different than what I am. Looks just don't matter to me, its what is inside that counts to me. I have always told my kids to look beyond someone's looks. They may be homely looking but the best person in the world. My son's daddy weighed about 350, it wasn't his weight that I saw it was him and his personality.
