Joe your getting your butt tore up here. These nice ladies have children and maternal instinct is kicking in. You are wrong here Sir
I have see photos of your beautiful children and there should be nothing in this world that you would not do to protect them as much as you can anytime any place. My hats off to the ladies you can not work this one out with a abacus
You kids do not have the choice you and your wife do !!